The key is to know what women want in men (separate article) and have the appropriate qualities. Here we will develop this into specific behaviors, what women expect from a man.
Thus, out of 900 - 9000 couples, only one couple lives in a mutually and voluntarily wanted free relationship. I don't know of such a couple, nor have I ever heard of them
In the media, we usually hear the opinions of sexologists and porn actors that porn films are an illusion and that sex at home does not work like that. This is only partly true.